Monday, February 4, 2013
Freaks and Sex Addiction
This " Lady in the street , freak in the bed ideology". Men will not marry or stay married to a freak regardless of her sexual prowess. Why? The male ego doesn't allow for deep committed feelings for anyone he deems a THREAT. Yes, you are a threat to his mind( wondering where you learned that) , his ego ( how many others have you shown this talent) and his pride(who is talking behind his back about your talent). My point, you can always find someone to " Hit it" question is will he "commit" to it. When you are truly in love, it will become more spiritual then physical and all the extra stuff will not be necessary. Next, this explosion of sex addiction. Have you ever heard of anyone being "Love making" addicted? No. Know why? Sex is selfish. Its yours or mine but not ours. It contains no emotions , just feelings. Horny is a feeling just like hunger. And as with hunger , horny craves variety. You may want steak today but its fish or chicken tomorrow. Same for sex. Some want rough, quick, slow or gentle, but will take a fast food quickie just to get by. Nothing like the melding of souls, the two becoming one, in an expression of their mutual love and adoration for each other. Not rushed, not selfish, just sharing and the willingness to give more then receive. The joys of love, the all encompassing cherishing and divine feeling of US, creating magic thats not shared with anyone else. Now thats what's up.