I've been careful to avoid the Trayvon M trial, post and comments. Regardless to outcome, a young life has been taken. But it highlights an inner cultural problem that plagues our people. We march about equality, only if we agree with it. As a race, yes equality, but sexual orientation, no no no. We want justice, but we promote "No Snitching" when its black on black crime. We have time for happy h...our, sporting events and concerts, but no time for parent/teacher conferences. We call for Imus' and Paula Deans heads on a platter for using the very words and phrases we use every minute of everyday. As a people, we buy more useless junk, (spinning rims, expensive tennis shoes, jewelry and loud car stereos) then any other race, keeping our money OUT of our communities. I'm tired of hearing or reading " Free my n***a whoever." They broke the law, they got locked up. How about supporting these youngsters, be a positive role model, give them direction and discipline so more of the walk across a stage for graduation and not a police lineup? I'm not making light of what happened to Trayvon by any means, but after you read this, count how many people you personally know who has murdered or been murdered via Black on Black. If Zimmerman was black, would most of us know about this? Exactly. God have mercy on all of us.
Thursday, February 28, 2013
Most of you have read about the talented youths on the National Championship team of Alabama. Robbing, beating and then using stolen bank cards of fellow students. There are people who are making excuses for these guys and believe their being kicked off the team and out of school is too harsh. REALLY??? First, many full time students WORK. They are paying for their education, housing, food and books. They arent robbing someone, they are working. Second, they broke the law. Athletes are not above the law and should be held accountable like everyone else. So what , their scholarships doesnt give them extra spending money. So what, the university is making millions off their skills and talents. Where does that give them the right to take from someone else? They are talented thugs who got what they deserved. How would you feel if they had robbed and beaten your child???
Monday, February 4, 2013
This " Lady in the street , freak in the bed ideology". Men will not marry or stay married to a freak regardless of her sexual prowess. Why? The male ego doesn't allow for deep committed feelings for anyone he deems a THREAT. Yes, you are a threat to his mind( wondering where you learned that) , his ego ( how many others have you shown this talent) and his pride(who is talking behind his back about your talent). My point, you can always find someone to " Hit it" question is will he "commit" to it. When you are truly in love, it will become more spiritual then physical and all the extra stuff will not be necessary. Next, this explosion of sex addiction. Have you ever heard of anyone being "Love making" addicted? No. Know why? Sex is selfish. Its yours or mine but not ours. It contains no emotions , just feelings. Horny is a feeling just like hunger. And as with hunger , horny craves variety. You may want steak today but its fish or chicken tomorrow. Same for sex. Some want rough, quick, slow or gentle, but will take a fast food quickie just to get by. Nothing like the melding of souls, the two becoming one, in an expression of their mutual love and adoration for each other. Not rushed, not selfish, just sharing and the willingness to give more then receive. The joys of love, the all encompassing cherishing and divine feeling of US, creating magic thats not shared with anyone else. Now thats what's up.